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Well, now. There’s something I have to get off of my chest. For years during my practice, I tended to avoid working with the elderly and particularly those with dementia. And I didn’t know why. Part of me now wonders if it was related to some unconscious fear of getting it someday.
However, in retrospect, I realize that I never had any supervisors, professors and mentors during my training who emphasized working with the elderly. Because I always wanted to “help” patients, I had the erroneous thought that I couldn’t help the elderly.
Now I feel that I missed out on ministering to an important population. If only I knew then what I know now. It’s not just about giving them a drug and making the dementia disappear overnight. It’s about holding their hand. Talking to them. Just being with them without saying anything. Or listening to their “babbling nonsense.” Now I realize their “nonsense” was sensical and not just babbling. Yes, most of it was that there was no time to do that. Making rounds, talking with family members, doing endless paperwork, etc., makes it difficult to spend the time we’d like to give to patients. But, I could have made time. I did it for other patients and took that extra step. Now I regret that I missed out on giving so much to those who needed it the most.
But it’s not too late. We all have opportunities to help them. It’s the little things. Not just giving them pills and elixors. It’s treating them as real people who haven’t died. People who are still alive inside with feelings, emotions and needs. Just like everyone else. Just like children, they aren’t always able to make their needs known. But we hold babies and children even if we don’t know for sure what their need truly is. Why don’t we do that with the elderly?
Ok. I’ve admitted a fault from the past. I can’t change it. But I admit to it. As the expression goes. “If I only knew then what I know now and to be able to do it all over again.” Yes, it would be different. But life doesn’t work that way. It just helps us to now realize that we can do it over again but in the present!